So you've left the narcissist or contemplating leaving but nothing in the world prepares you enough for the potential challenges that come with staying or leaving the abuser.
Perhaps you have family and friends who believe they know better. They blame you for not speaking out enough or not speaking up at all.
''Why leave now'', ''You could have been more patient'', ''No one is perfect'', ''No marriage is easy'' ''Just stay for the sake of the kids''. Or you have a mother who says - ''Your father was tougher but I still stayed with him''; or the religious groups who blame you for ''not praying hard enough''.
Maybe you battle with so many questions and scenarios within yourself. You're concerned about what life would look like for you and your child(ren), what the future holds, concerned about being a 'single parent', or you're the first to be divorced in your family, fearful about what people would say, nervous about the stigma or shame of a failed relationship or you just feel stuck going round in cycles and not even sure of what to think or do, or who to speak to or ask...
Does any or all of these resonate with you?
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